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Some Fun Facts about Sex: Simultaneous Orgasm – myth or maybe?

by Beth Divine 16 Mar 2019

It is traditionally believed that women are the only ones to have a G-spot, that women do not think about sex – or if they do, it is prefaced by ‘ew!’ and that simultaneous orgasms can be achieved by everyone with just a little bit of effort. The truth is far stranger than erotic fiction would allow.

Simultaneous orgasm – as seen all the time on television and movies – is when both partners in a sexual session come at exactly the same time. In television, movies, and even in books, this happens all the time, a fallacy that makes people believe that if it does not happen to them, then their relationship is deficient in some way. Of course, this is not true: there are many things that happen in mainstream entertainment that are not based in reality and are, in fact, based on wishful thinking, dramatic emphasis and simply story-telling. The simultaneous orgasm is one such fact.

When one considers that only seventy per cent of men and thirty per cent of women orgasm every time they have sex with a regular partner (these figures fall when one is having sex with strangers – it takes time and repeated effort for trust to build up between a couple) then the possibility of simultaneous orgasm becomes something very rare indeed.

As in fact, it is. It is so rare for the simultaneous orgasm to occur that most people in long-term relationships will never experience it. That bears repeating: most people in long-term relationships will never experience simultaneous orgasm with their regular partner.

So if you are amongst that small lucky percentage of people who have experienced the joys of simultaneous orgasm, even once, then be aware of how very lucky you are – instead of beating yourself up that it doesn’t happen more often, or even all the time!

You can try and work towards simultaneous orgasm if you and your partner are determined to make it happen. The watchwords are plenty of stimulation, lots of foreplay and both of you being very close to the brink before you begin to go for it in earnest. The good news is that when it does happen, it is usually one of the best orgasms that you will ever experience, because as your moment of climax happens, so does theirs: making a joyful twofer the like of which very few have or ever will experience.